Admittedly, I’m pretty bad at being focused. Now, don’t get me wrong, when I want to focus in on something I can, but the key phrase is “want to.” More often than not, I’m much more at home being “focused” on The Office or The Crown (hey it’s great don’t knock me). I’ll often find myself picking up books and then putting them down five minutes later or settling in for some prayer time only to have it cut short two minutes in by the allure of an episode of Stranger Things.

I can definitely be focused in many ways, shapes, and forms when I actually put my mind and willpower to it, but in general I tend to settle for my unfocused state. Imagine what life would be life if you could actually focus on God in prayer the way you wanted to: uninterrupted, devoted, singularly focusing on God and nothing else. Seems impossible doesn’t it?

You want to remain focused at Mass, but then Michael Scott quotes start seeping into your head. Or you want to remain focused during adoration, but then your favorite Dwight Schrute reference pops up out of nowhere.

What I’d like to propose to you is that we have a model of what it looks like to be focused on the Lord, someone who can not only be a model for you, but can actively pray for you and will this for you. Surprise: it’s Mary (it’s always Mary).

Today in the Church we celebrate the feast of the Immaculate Heart of Mary. In a word, we celebrate Mary’s purity and intentionality of living before God, the lack of duplicity within her, her singular focus on God and ability to keep the things of God close to her heart and mind at all times. If you want to be holy and focus on God, imitate Mary.

To imitate Mary, ask yourself a simple, yet difficult question: am I willing to say yes to whatever God wants right now? This is what the Immaculate Heart of Mary models for us: a complete and total purity in the way she lived her life. Nothing mattered to her more than serving, knowing, and loving her Son. Not The Office, not podcasts, not video games; nothing. What mattered to Mary was a singular focus on her Beloved, her Son, her God.

So today, ask yourself, what is most important to me? Do I approach God with a purity in my intention, seeking God for His sake? What things do I place before Him, even if they seem like good things? How can I grow in saying yes to God in my own life? Am I ready to say yes to Him even at times when it seems inconvenient and I am not ready to do what He wants?

Today, imitate Mary and ask to be conformed to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, full of purity, wisdom, and love in knowing, loving, and serving our God.

What is it in your life that distracts you and pulls your heart and mind away from God?

How is God calling your yes to him to deepen in your current season of life?

For you, what does focus look like in your prayer and spiritual life right now? How can you be more intentional about making the time and space to really encounter the Lord?

"Mary, pray for me."

"Help me focus."

"Jesus, I trust in you."

Holy Virgin of Guadalupe,
Queen of the Angels and Mother of the Americas.
We fly to you today as your beloved children.
We ask you to intercede for us with your Son,
as you did at the wedding in Cana.
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Pray for us, loving Mother,
and gain for our nation and world,
and for all our families and loved ones,
the protection of your holy angels,
that we may be spared the worst of this illness.

For those already afflicted,
we ask you to obtain the grace of healing and deliverance.
Hear the cries of those who are vulnerable and fearful,
wipe away their tears and help them to trust.

In this time of trial and testing,
teach all of us in the Church to love one another and to be patient and kind.
Help us to bring the peace of Jesus to our land and to our hearts.

We come to you with confidence,
knowing that you truly are our compassionate mother,
health of the sick and cause of our joy.

Shelter us under the mantle of your protection,
keep us in the embrace of your arms,
help us always to know the love of your Son, Jesus. Amen.